Tuesday, August 10, 2010

How can i speak to girls?

I havent spoken to girls in a long time. I've only had 2 girlfriends and both relationships ended after two weeks. nearly all my friends speak to girls from their classes but when it comes to me i cant even strike up a conversation. Is it because im too shy?How can i speak to girls?
Just go with the flow...many girls like funny guys or has a good attitude.


Compliment the girl, ask her about stuff, like --%26gt; ';so how was your day beautiful? :)';How can i speak to girls?
Don't go online or text first, I used to think that worked but it doesn't.


It all depends on your situation mate, if you see a girl sitting alone, then you got nothing to lose, go up to her ask her name, is she waiting for someone/something?


Bus stops are a good place, there's always one girl on her own at a bus stop which is instant conversation! ';Where you going?'; or ';How long you been waiting?'; Questions that might seem lame but always lead onto a rippling conversation. I used to be shy but you just have to realise you've got nothing to lose!
i find a topic of there interest and talk 2 them about it. other times i make jokes. i sweet talk them and say things that show that i care about them and that make them feel good.girls like to be listened but they also liked to be talked to. i am a very shy guy but i choose girls that from my gut feeling i will feel comfortable being around. once you get around them you will see that ur shyness will disappear. be confident, girls like that, but most of all be urself. youll be fine, trust me. i went through the same thing.
Try talking to them online first or by texts. It's alot easier than face to face. Then work from there. Once you get to know people even by texts/online it's alot easier to speak to them IRL. Also, just ask them loads of questions, women love nothing more than to talk about themselves.
Alex, try observing the way your friends act around girls, the things they might say, the expressions on their faces. Practice in a mirror till you build a bit more confidence in your ability to approach a girl.





Next, the right girl for you will be naturally attracted to you, BUT you need to show confidence in yourself in order for others to feel confident being with you.





Hope this helps!
Try talking to them online first or by texts. It's a lot t easier than face to face. Then work from there. Once you get to know people even by texts/online it's easier to speak to them questions, women love nothing more than to talk about themselves...
Maybe your friends could try to hook you up with someone and you can try again but maybe those two other girls werent your type some girls likes a man who likes what she likes or a guy that is romantic but if your too shy to figure out a conversation you can write a love letter in her desk but if thats to hard for you. or 'would you like to go for a drink or dinner etc. Keep it simple for yourself. Don't say things like ';My plans got canceled so you wanna go out tonight?'; It'll make her feel as if she's just a fallback option.I know this answers might not help you but atleast try it.
Well obviously... just talk to them. I think girls can be a bit more open and less guarded when it comes to conversation, so just begin with some small talk. If they don't seem interested, then don't sweat it and move on.
Just be yourself...














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